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Moving Forward – Just keep moving forward

I have pushed you on some things that can push back so I want to share with you a story from the Bible about a time when people trusted the Lord and they got some push back from it

The Australian coat of arms pictures two creatures–the emu, a flightless bird, and the kangaroo.

The animals were chosen because they share a characteristic that appealed to the Australian citizens. Both the emu and kangaroo can move only forward, not back. The emu’s three-toed foot causes it to fall if it tries to go backwards, and the kangaroo is prevented from moving in reverse by its large tail.

Those who truly choose to follow Jesus become like the emu and kangaroo, moving only forward, never back

Exodus 14:1-9 

Then the Lord gave these instructions to Moses: 2 “Order the Israelites to turn back and camp by Pi-hahiroth between Migdol and the sea. Camp there along the shore, across from Baal-zephon. 3 Then Pharaoh will think, ‘The Israelites are confused. They are trapped in the wilderness!’ 4 And once again I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and he will chase after you. I have planned this in order to display my glory through Pharaoh and his whole army. After this the Egyptians will know that I am the Lord!” So the Israelites camped there as they were told. 5 When word reached the king of Egypt that the Israelites had fled, Pharaoh and his officials changed their minds. “What have we done, letting all those Israelite slaves get away?” they asked. 6 So Pharaoh harnessed his chariot and called up his troops. 7 He took with him 600 of Egypt’s best chariots, along with the rest of the chariots of Egypt, each with its commander. 8 The Lord hardened the heart of Pharaoh, the king of Egypt, so he chased after the people of Israel, who had left with fists raised in defiance. 9 The Egyptians chased after them with all the forces in Pharaoh’s army—all his horses and chariots, his charioteers, and his troops. The Egyptians caught up with the people of Israel as they were camped beside the shore near Pi-hahiroth, across from Baal-zephon.

1) Helpless Situation–causes us to feel like moving backward

They are entangled in the land, the wilderness has shut them in

• Reasons not to move forward with life stems from – Fear

– Inactivity – haven’t spent time in the word, prayer, fellowship with other believer’s

– Inexperience – we are in a place we have never been before, it seems impossible even though God lead us here

– Inability – I can’t do it, everything from your past hits at once and tells you of you inability rather than God’s ability

• Seems like a mistake following the leadership of God – look for people to blame because you feel as if you are trapped

Romans 8:31 What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us?

Exodus 14: 10-14

As Pharaoh approached, the people of Israel looked up and panicked when they saw the Egyptians overtaking them. They cried out to the Lord, 11 and they said to Moses, “Why did you bring us out here to die in the wilderness? Weren’t there enough graves for us in Egypt? What have you done to us? Why did you make us leave Egypt? 12 Didn’t we tell you this would happen while we were still in Egypt? We said, ‘Leave us alone! Let us be slaves to the Egyptians. It’s better to be a slave in Egypt than a corpse in the wilderness!’” 

2) Desperate Cry– something we naturally do when we feel trapped

Pharaoh approached, the people of Israel looked up and panicked….. Pharaoh and they were sore afraid: …. and …. They cried out to the Lord

• Followed in obedience – they had done nothing wrong yet they seemed to be trapped, the trusted the Lord and the leadership

• Yet seems worst off then before verses 11-12 – we tend to look at things through the eyes of right now and our abilities and our wants and desires rather than God’s if God is leading you can bet he has a better plan

Exodus 14:13,14

13 But Moses told the people, “Don’t be afraid. Just stand still and watch the Lord rescue you today. The Egyptians you see today will never be seen again. 14 The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm.”

3) Perfect Confidence– when we are in the battle of change to become everything the Lord has called us to be we have to remember that all kinds of things will fight us….that just goes to prove to us we are on the right track…our confidence, like Moses’ must be in the Lord. That is where faith kicks in

• Christ is a present help in the time of trouble 

Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble

• He knows how to deliver – 

Joshua 1:9 This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

• He will fight for you – hold your peace…Romans 8:31 from above and 

Psalm 44:5 Through You we will push down our enemies; Through Your name we will trample those who rise up against us.

4) The decision to Trust– Exodus 14:15-18

And the Lord said to Moses, “Why do you cry to Me? Tell the children of Israel to go forward. 16 But lift up your rod, and stretch out your hand over the sea and divide it. And the children of Israel shall go on dry ground through the midst of the sea. 17 And I indeed will harden the hearts of the Egyptians, and they shall follow them. So I will gain honor over Pharaoh and over all his army, his chariots, and his horsemen. 18 Then the Egyptians shall know that I am the Lord, when I have gained honor for Myself over Pharaoh, his chariots, and his horsemen.”

…. go forward – there comes a point when as Nike says, we have to “Just do it” we realize God has brought us to this point and we have got to choose to trust him then we take action

• There is a part that they and I have to do – remember the disciples with feeding the 30K people Jesus said “you feed them”

• Impossibilities lets God work

• His work is always forward

• Defeat or victory lay in their hands

• Obedience gives the victory

Many stories in scripture show us how God goes before those who trust Him…it was a trust in so many ways…I mean I would have been saying God you’re going to allow Pharaoh to do what?

5) Perfect Protection– when we trust God he then does all that he has promised to do….see we do have a part in faith

Exodus 14:19,20

19 And the Angel of God, who went before the camp of Israel, moved and went behind them; and the pillar of cloud went from before them and stood behind them. 20 So it came between the camp of the Egyptians and the camp of Israel. Thus it was a cloud and darkness to the one, and it gave light by night to the other, so that the one did not come near the other all that night.

– His presence promised for us – he will never leave us or forsake us even when we fail he does not fail

– Impossible Deliverance – it would not have been my way of doing it perhaps not your way either but the Lord had a couple million people to get through the sea

Exodus 14:21 – 27

Then Moses stretched out his hand over the sea; and the Lord caused the sea to go back by a strong east wind all that night, and made the sea into dry land, and the waters were divided. 22 So the children of Israel went into the midst of the sea on the dry ground, and the waters were a wall to them on their right hand and on their left. 23 And the Egyptians pursued and went after them into the midst of the sea, all Pharaoh’s horses, his chariots, and his horsemen. 24 Now it came to pass, in the morning watch, that the Lord looked down upon the army of the Egyptians through the pillar of fire and cloud, and He troubled the army of the Egyptians. 25 And He took off their chariot wheels, so that they drove them with difficulty; and the Egyptians said, “Let us flee from the face of Israel, for the Lord fights for them against the Egyptians.” 26 Then the Lord said to Moses, “Stretch out your hand over the sea, that the waters may come back upon the Egyptians, on their chariots, and on their horsemen.” 27 And Moses stretched out his hand over the sea; and when the morning appeared, the sea returned to its full depth, while the Egyptians were fleeing into it. So the Lord overthrew the Egyptians in the midst of the sea.

• Salvation is all of God’s doing – God will always come through as we trust him

• Waves held back until all the redeemed passed over

• Jesus is the way 

Can you imagine the Israelites believing the Egyptian army would be destroyed with out weapons and by the very thing that brought them deliverance, the parted sea!

When we trust God we have to really trust him. He doesn’t always reveal his plans for us completely but when we learn to trust him, no matter how bad things may look from our perspective or point of view, God always has a great plan

• Have you experienced victory over the impossible?

You may get push back from the moving forward but God hasn’t created us to move backward, like the emu and the kangaroo we have been designed to move forward to change the world and to become all he has called us to be…you are so much more than you are right now you have been created for far more than you are and God doesn’t want you to settle to do the change he has called you to don’t be afraid of the push back, Godhas you and has greatness in your future, fulfillment in your future, destiny and purpose fulfilled in your future…you are also just getting to know and understand His love for you, grow with it

Let’s talk about joy!!

Let me at the beginning today take a quick survey. 

How many of you have ever been discouraged?

How many of you could use more joy in your life?

Okay I’m teaching the right message to the right group today.

You know it’s going to be a bad day when:

– you turn on the morning news and they’re displaying emergency routes out of the city

– you wake up in the morning and the sun rises in the west

– your boss tells you not to bother taking off your coat

– your horn gets stuck following a group of hell’s angels

– when you jump out of bed and miss the floor

– when you call your answering service and they tell you it’s none of your business

– when you step on the scale and it reads tilt

Well we all have bad days don’t we? We all get discouraged. But my subject today is JOY!!!!!

The news, the difficulties of life, the division in our nation have all stolen our joy

Now, I am not so naive to think that we will always be on the top of the world walking on the mountain, for there will be occasion that we will have to travel in the valley for a while. But neither am I so spiritually ignorant that am not aware that God has provided for us in times of those valley experiences.

– In this life we will have tribulation.

– In this life we will have trouble

– In this life we will have difficulty

– In this life we will have trials

– sickness

– hard times

– The storm will rise

– The winds will blow

– The waves will crash against your life

 – There will be discouragement

 – Things won’t go as planned

  – sorrow, weeping

  – financial difficulties

 – dark days

 – uncertain times

But the thing that God has provided for us in the hard times of this life is JOY!!!!

Psalm 30:5 – For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning. (NLT)

Turn to your neighbor and say: “Neighbor, weeping may last for the night, but joy comes in the morning”.

Isaiah 61:3 – To console those who mourn in Zion, To give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified

Turn to your other neighbor and say: “Neighbor, He’s given us joy for mourning. And he’s given us the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness”

This joy that I have….The world didn’t give it to me…And the world can’t take it away

What is Joy?Mr. Webster says: “it is the emotion evoked by well-being, success or good fortune or by the prospect of possessing what one desires.”

Joy is a strong feeling of happiness; a manifestation of happiness through an outward rejoicing or excitement.

To the people who don’t know Jesus those definitions might be true. But to the Christian (someone who should know Jesus) something different applies as it relates to our JOY.

This outward rejoicing comes from an inward satisfaction that I know Jesus Christ and I am full of His Spirit part of which is JOY

Nehemiah 8:10 – Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.

The nation of Israel had just read the scriptures and they were to celebrate that God was God, He was in charge and could be trusted despite their difficult life and situations

1 Pet 1:6-8  In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, 7 that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ, 8 whom having not seen you love. Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, 9 receiving the end of your faith—the salvation of your souls.

Peter is challenging us saying…if you really believe God to be God then understand He is bigger than your trials, your struggles..these are the things that test whether you really believe He is God or not and your are His child or not….so choose to believe, not in the circumstances bt in the God who is bigger than the circumstances….choose to rejoice not in the difficulty of what you are walking through but knowing it in a little while it will be gone and you will have overcome

1 Peter 4:12,13 – Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you: 13 – But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ’s sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.

Somebody say: I’m on a journey….it’s not always easy…but if I choose, I will always win

What brings joy? Choosing to trust God

Turn to your neighbor and say: “I’ve got:

– troubles – But I’ve got JOY!!

– problems

– sickness

– trials

– bills to pay

– difficulties

When we believe and trust in God and we are walking in the truth of God’s word… we are blessed by God. We have joy not because we have:

– a nice car

– more money

– a house

– a good job

But we rejoice because we know who has our lives in the palm of His hands and that He can be trusted more than our circumstance.

What brings joy? When I think of the goodness of Jesus and all he’s done for me because I know He loves me, sees me, and believes in me – that’s when I get joy. Not from the things of the world

– In the fiery furnace – joy (Read Daniel)

– In the lion’s den – joy, joy (read Daniel)

– In the Red sea – joy, joy, joy (read Exodus)

– In front of the walls of Jericho – joy, joy, joy, joy (read Joshua)

– In front of the biggest giants – joy (1 Samuel)

– In prison in stocks and bonds after being beaten – joy, joy, joy, joy, joy (Acts)

– In troubles – joy

– In sickness – joy, joy

– In financial difficulty – joy, joy, joy

– In problems on the job – joy, joy, joy, joy

– In the darkest hour of your life – joy, joy, joy, joy, joy

Take some time to think of all the things God has done for you, remember them especially in your troubles, sickness, financial difficulties, problems on the job, with the family

He will help you to feel and know the joy as you choose to trust him, as you choose to remember all the good things he has done for you

Psalm 51:12 – Restore to me the joy of your salvation

and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. (NASB)

Don’t witness to someone with a frown.

Don’t invite someone to come here with a sourpuss look on your face.

But get some joy!!!

If you can’t get excited about:

the fact that you know him, you do have problems. You need to get some joy!!!! Joy is a choice…choosing to believe in God’s goodness and trust Him, choose to remember all the good things He has done for you…see you not only need the Joy for you but the world needs to see it too, people in our area, the people we work with, go to school with, see at the store every day….if we choose joy we go from:

– doubt to trust

– complaining to confidence

– trusting in man to God

– valley to mountain

– fear to faith

– defeat to victory

The joy of the Lord is our strength!!

You need to be excited:

– that you know him

– about what God has done for you

– about His love for you

– that He knows you and believes in you

– that what He has done for you in the past is easy for Him to do again

– that you as a part of this family, you are changing the world for others every day

When I think of the goodness of Lord and all he’s done for me

When I think of the goodness of Lord and how he set me free, blessed me, knows me, met me, believes in me…I can’t help but expect more and that builds an excitement of joy in me

COME ON DOWN HERE AND GET SOME JOY!!!

Moving Forward in 2019 Part 2

As we launch into a new year, many take it as an opportunity to make better decisions, eating right, more exercise, less wasted time, more time with family and friends, starting a new hobby or schooling.

Last week we talked about starting the new year off right by choosing to forgive ourselves, walk free of regrets and be as free as we should be because of Christ setting us free…This week I want you to think about who you really are…what is your identity what labels do you wear?

LIFE STORY

We struggle with our identity and that of others, the labels we and others give us

It is at the root of prejudice, intimidation, insecurity, much of our anxiety, most psychological problems, fear, anger and so much more

It is also at the root of our successes, our sense of accomplishment, compassion, our feelings of love, and passion.

A few years ago I had another class reunion when I think about high school it wasn’t a bad time for me…I had my struggles like most. When I graduated I was 5’ 4” tall and weighed about 90-100lbs. I was always small throughout school…the reunion got me thinking about labels…we had the jocks, nerds, geeks, heads, rebels, popular kids, bandy’s, class clowns….at one point or another I fit into most of these labels….I wrestled so I was a jock, I loved reading, literature, and Shakespeare so I was a nerd, I loved sci-fi so I was a geek, in junior high I would bring candy and gum in a gym bag to sell, it was considered contraband back then because you weren’t allowed either in school, in high school drove a motorcycle to school so I was a rebel. My junior and senior year I spent lots of my earnings on clothes and I was going to the under 21 clubs dancing so I became very popular. I starred in all the school plays mostly comedic roles so thus the class clown, I was in the band from 4^thto 12^thgrade….but these were labels others tried to place on me, they were just a slice of who I was not the whole picture…that’s the problem with labels

Think about it….How many here were nerds? Jocks (cheerleaders included)?, rebels?, class clown, bandy’s (majorettes included)? Popular? Heads were what we called the drug users I don’t want to know this one today

Our identity comes from many places… 

what we do….our jobs, hobbies, skill sets

who we are….Father, Mother, husband, wife, son, daughter, neighbor, friend

culture or race….Italian, Polish, German, white black, Hispanic, Asian

class…lower, middle, upper

education…skilled, unskilled, bachelor’s, masters, doctorate, apprentice, journeyman, master

sex…male, female

age….Millennials, next gen, y, x, baby boomers, baby busters

All of these labels, identities…who has the right to label something?

1) Manufacturer– labels on shirt, shoes, underwear, the phones we use…we expect the people that make stuff…labels are everywhere on our stuff…and if the label is cool people will pay more for the label than for the product…I remember 2013 when rapper Kayne West sold his hip hop plain white t-shirt, for 120 dollars, and it sold out instantly…it is a plain white t-shirt people…but it’s all about the label…(in college I had to have the polo with the little alligator on it “LaCosta”

2) Owners- if you own something, you can label it…cause you own it…if you don’t own it…you can’t label it….I mean how weird would it be if I came to your house with a label maker and started labeling things like kitchen, dog, mother, sister, even if I was right, I wouldn’t have the right, because I am not the owner…visitors don’t have the right to label things

3) Purchasers– when you were a kid, what was the first thing your parents told you to do with your… coat, you baseball glove, or soccer ball, your backpack….write your name and phone number on it…

Apart from receiving the label from the manufacturer, owner, or purchaser any label is a fake label (I bought a few of those when I thought I was getting the real “Lacoste” in college)

This labeling, when done wrong, causes racism, prejudice, sexism, and ignorance to grow rampant. It causes heartache and places limits on us when the label is “stupid”, “good for nothing”, when some is labeled useless, called racial slurs, even labels like poor, republican, democratic, conservative, liberal and so on it also causes division between people, cultures, and the church….our first priority must be allowing the Manufacturer, owner, or purchaser to label you only

The one who made something is the manufacturer. 

The owner – the person who owns that something 

The purchaser – the person who bought that something… 

Which means God is the only one who has the right to label you…God is the one who manufactured you…who created you… 

Psalm 139:13

 “You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb.

God is also the one who owns you…

Psalm 24:1

 “The earth is the Lord’s, and everything in it. The world and all its people belong to him.”

God is your purchaser…

1 Peter 1:18-19 says, “For you know that God paid a ransom to save you from the empty life you inherited from your ancestors. And it was not paid with mere gold or silver, which lose their value. 19 It was the precious blood of Christ, the sinless, spotless Lamb of God.

God is the only one who is your Creator, God is the only who owns the earth and all of us in it, and God is the only one who loved you so much that he sent his son to die on the cross for your sins…so that by the blood of Christ He purchased you from sin and death…God is the only one who has a right…to label you…

And if we could live our lives simply rejecting all the labels that other people try to stick on us…and instead choose to let God be the one to label us…our lives would be so so so much better…and we would be able to do so so so much more in this life…because we would be free from fear of others…

I just want to look at one verse with you, that talks about this and it is found in Romans 12:2

“…do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”

When we accept labels we are conforming to the way of this world. When Paul is speaking of conforming to this world he is saving don’t allow yourself to be shaped into a pattern of thinking, behavior, attitudes, judgment, impurity of thought the way the world looks and acts, you are different

The question is…we know we are not supposed to do that…and yet…we find ourselves doing that all time…why?…if we are honest with ourselves, we want to fit in…no one likes being an outsider, a freak…and honestly…the world has some pretty cool riches to offer….but here Paul is saying if you want to go after all the things the world has to offer…and if you really want to fit in…then you are going to conform to the pattern of this world in order to get those things…and in the process…you are going to lose yourself…and is it worth it…Jesus put it this way Matthew 16:26

“For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?”

This world is dying and conforming to it is only a temporary enjoyment

1 John 2:17

And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.

What good would it be to have had the most opulent room on the Titanic or the luxury office and suite in the twin towers…conforming to the worlds pattern of thinking, the labels that come with the prejudices, insecurities and impurities of thought lead to temporary comfort but ultimate disaster

Going back to the idea of high school you could decide to conform to the patterns that someone else had set before and those patterns and labels always created an us versus them scenario and idea that we were the in-crowd and others did not fit in…it was a micro version of what is happening in our world today…the church and Christians are conforming to a label based on the world rather than Christ and it causes division not unity…we can’t think the way the world thinks, we can’t label ourselves and others the way the world does.

When you are at work, shopping, with the guy/gals the language, discussions, attitudes are mostly going to be patterned after the way the world thinks and talks…you belong to Christ first you should patterned your life, language, attitudes, and discussions based on Him.

The second part of this says be “transformed by the renewing of our minds”

Be transformed…that verb transformed there is a passive command which basically means Paul is commanding us to allow and work with the Holy Spirit to change us from the inside out.

In order to live our identity out as Christ desires we must allow the Holy Spirit to work in us…His job is to teach, to guide, to cause us to remember all that Jesus taught

In order to be open to really knowing our true identity it is in Christ as we see here

John 1:12

“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name:”

Galatians 3:28,29 

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29 And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

We have to know what Christ is like?  Let me ask you something…how much of this past week would you say you emulated Christ and how much did you respond like the world?

To change here are a few things we need to do!

1) If we apply the fruit of the Spirit to our daily lives Galatians 5:22,23

We will be transformed, our words, actions, attitudes, judgments

2) We can only do that by daily being in prayer and the word…we need refreshed and renewed every day like our teeth…if you did not brush your teeth they would soon stink, rot, and fall out. Such will be our walk with Christ and our lives if we are not in prayer and the word

3) Rip off the labels of the old identity that you had and accept only Christ Identity for you…many times things that were said and done in childhood or the way others have labels us stick for years…Christ has paid the price for us to be different to be who he says that we are but if we continue to go back to the old labels we will never be free

Romans 8:15

For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father.”

4) Stop caring about the pattern of the world…when someone says something is cool, something is popular, something is great.. who are they to say that it is or isn’t….Jesus looked at the broken, the downcast, all sorts of people and he made them right, he knew the real label they should be wearing…each one was a precious child of God, deeply loved by Him…the world’s understanding of things is temporary but God’s is eternal.

5) Wear God’s label first…too often we get caught up and make secondary labels first…you are God’s child ahead of your political affiliation, ahead of you educational or family background, ahead of your race, ahead of your culture…if we can come to the place of seeing each other as brothers and sisters in Christ first then we will go a long way to understanding our identity and the identity of everyone else in our lives

Do you have a label that has been killing you, holding you back, limiting who you are? Have you allowed others to steal your real identity by labeling you or putting you in a place that is an old label? Come and allow someone to help you rip off the old label.

God sees the real you…the whole you and he has given you a label Child of the King

Moving Forward in 2019 Part 1

As we launch into a new year, many take it as an opportunity to make better decisions, eating right, more exercise, less wasted time, more time with family and friends, starting a new hobby or schooling. Out of the 48 sermons I taught here last year, 38 of them directly tied in with “Love.” Understanding God’s love for others and us is always critical to moving forward….I know it at times can seem overwhelming to make changes but allow me to share a story with you. A woman tells the story of her daughter wanting to show her a daffodil field (this is a true story)

(Place daffodil field photo on the screen) Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, “Mother, you must come see the daffodils before they are over.” I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead.

“I will come next Tuesday, ” I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third call.

Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn’s house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, “Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!”

My daughter smiled calmly and said, “We drive in this all the time, Mother.”

“Well, you won’t get me back on the road until it clears, and then I’m heading for home!” I assured her.

“I was hoping you’d take me over to the garage to pick up my car.”

“How far will we have to drive?”

“Just a few blocks,” Carolyn said. “I’ll drive. I’m used to this.”

After several minutes, I had to ask, “Where are we going? This isn’t the way to the garage!”

“We’re going to my garage the long way,” Carolyn smiled, “by way of the daffodils.”

“Carolyn,” I said sternly, “please turn around.”

“It’s all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience.”

After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand-lettered sign that said, “Daffodil Garden.”

We got out of the car and each took a child’s hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns-great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers.

“But who has done this?” I asked Carolyn.

“It’s just one woman,” Carolyn answered. “She lives on the property. That’s her home.”

Carolyn pointed to a well kept A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house. On the patio, we saw a poster. “Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking” was the headline.

The first answer was a simple one.”50,000 bulbs,” it read. The second answer was, “One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and very little brain.” The third answer was, “Began in 1978.”

There it was, The Daffodil Principle. For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun ~ one bulb at a time ~ to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountain top. Still, just planting one bulb at a time, year after year, had changed the world. This unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created something of indescribable magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.

The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time ~ often just one baby-step at a time ~ and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

“It makes me sad in a way,” I admitted to Carolyn. “What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal forty years ago and had worked away at it ‘one bulb at a time’ through all those years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!”

My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way. “Start tomorrow,” she said.

I want us to be free, so we can bring freedom to otherstoday we begin with one day, one step at a time, let’s start today!

Forgiveness– I am not focusing or forgiving others, I have taught on that many times but I want to visit forgiving ourselves.

Many of us live in a dark place, a place that many in our lives may not know about, but it controls us….what we think, what we do, how we respond to others….there are hidden things in our lives, some that no one knows about and we fear if anyone finds out they will reject us, walk away from us, treat us differently or look at us differently

It can be wrapped up in one word…

Regret

1. to feel sorrow or remorse for (an act, fault, disappointment, etc.):He no sooner spoke than he regretted it.
2. to think of with a sense of loss:to regret one’s vanished youth.

Forgive

1. to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.); absolve.
2. to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation, etc.).
3. to grant pardon to (a person).
4. to cease to feel resentment against:to forgive one’s enemies.
5. to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan.

Romans 3:23-25

“For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. 24 Yet God, in his grace, freely makes us right in his sight. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. 25 For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood….”  

When we recognize, our sin, our blowing it is part of the human condition, it is a result of the fall of man….we are not perfect. We are not good enough It is the very reason Jesus came to die on the cross

We can’t be good enough, none of us are perfect enough…let me say something that may seem harsh but is very true

When we don’t forgive ourselves and receive the Lord’s forgiveness for us we are saying to God Jesus death on the cross was not good enough for me

So why would we do such a thing

1. we believe we need to suffer for the consequences of our sin

– we all will feel the effects of our sin in one way or another depending on the sin…for some it is merely and internal angst for other there are external repercussions

a lie – if not found out will eat away at us inside but if found out will hurt others and we will feel the pain of their hurt

It is bred into a lot of doctrines out there that we must suffer for our sins…the problem with that is that Jesus already did all the suffering for us and paid the price so that we might understand real love 

1 Corinthians 13:3

If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.

When we understand real love then we understand forgiving ourselves is about truly knowing God’s love for us which allows us to walk in the freedom that forgiveness gives us

2) A struggle with forgiveness may be a struggle with self-righteous standards.

“I can’t forgive myself” is equivalent to saying, “I haven’t lived up to my own perfect standards,” or, “I haven’t lived up to other people’s expectations.”

We have created our own standard of righteousness. Perhaps we over-estimated ourselves. Or, we so worshiped the approval of others, that we lived life perpetually attempting to solicit that applause.

If this is the case we will fail every time the battle with self-forgiveness arises from failure to measure up to our own standards of performance; our own image of how good we hoped that we were. And now, we are deceived into thinking that we cannot forgive ourselves. In reality, we need to confess our sin of creating a self-righteous standard or worshipping the god of people-applause.

We need to remember the verse from earlier 

Romans 3:23 “For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard.

We all fail but we are to all rely on God’s grace which according to Paul is sufficient for us….if this battle is ours it is as if we are saying we are God and we determine our own value rather than God determining it

We can easily find ourselves never being happy always striving to please others always being afraid that if we are wrong that we are somehow less than others…we must forgive and live in forgiveness of ourselves seeing our failures

To be honest it is only by recognizing our weakness that we can become truly strong

2 Corinthians 12:9

“My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.

When we recognize our need to forgive ourselves then Christ can be made more alive in us and we reflect him better.

3) The person who says, “I just can’t forgive myself,” may have ascended to the throne of judgment and declared himself to be his own judge.

When we sit in judgment of ourselves this way we are the harshest of judges. We lack the love for ourselves that God commands when He says…

“Love your neighbor as yourself” Leviticus 19:18 (God the Father) Matthew 22:39 (Jesus)

we are declaring as judge we can choose to give forgiveness of ourselves or hold it against ourselves the problem is because of Jesus death on the cross, God has already forgiven you so why hold it against yourself

It is selfishness and arrogance to not forgive ourselveswhen Jesus paid the price in full…

He desires freedom for you…He knows everything you have done. He saw it before you did it and still went to the cross for it.

God has the right to judge you, but as a Christian he chooses not to, but instead sent his son to the cross for each and every sin you have ever committed…He chooses love and forgiveness instead he is the judge, to a sinful world, and to us he is the one who loves you the most!

Guilt and regret is not something that we can actually do away with. We can only suppress it. But doing so is soul-suicide. 

Guilt can only be removed by something outside of ourselves. Believing and receiving God’s forgiveness for ourselves doesn’t suppress guilt it makes us free of it so we can live in freedom if we can live in freedom than we can bring freedom to others

Psalm 33:5 He loves whatever is just and good; the unfailing love of the Lord fills the earth. 

This is what He has for you even in your lack of forgiveness toward yourself but you could experience it so much deeper if you would but choose to trust Him and forgive yourself!

Forgiveness is a choice…it often takes time and many times of our recognizing our own forgiveness until we feel it. With God, the moment we ask for forgiveness we receive it so choose to believe God rather than your feelingstoday as you move forward, take one step to accept the forgiveness for yourself that Christ paid for!

Today, I want you to choose to forgive yourself…it doesn’t mean you feel it right away but making the choice begins the process and the Lord who began the good work will complete it

Unforgiveness toward yourself means death to your joy, your peace, your contentment…so forgiveness to yourself means life to joy, peace and contentment….ask the Lord today do I have any bitterness because of things I have done, any resentment, any regrets…it doesn’t matter what you did or how long you have held them…God can help you forgive yourself and let it go today

You can never live up to God’s standard by your work, your righteousness, your goodness…but you can by his love, mercy and grace that you often pour out to others but don’t give yourself

How about giving it to yourself today?

Q

The Hope of Christmas

On November 21, 1943, Dietrich Bonheoffer wrote a letter to his fiancée, Maria von Wedemeyer, while Hitler imprisoned him during World War II. In the letter, he talked about a spiritual lesson he was learning from his life as a prisoner. He wrote: 

“A prison cell, in which one waits, hopes, does various unessential things, and is completely dependent on the fact that the door of freedom has to be opened from the outside is not a bad picture of Advent.”

Our freedom and our hope have come because of Christ

The theme of hope is a welcome one when we are faced with some of the things that life can throw at us. 

– When we are filled with fear, we need the hope of God’s presence, power and promises. 

– When we are faced with pain or illness, we need the hope that God is aware of what is going on in our lives. 

– When a bad and difficult situation goes on for a long time, we need the hope of knowing that God is able to overcome the evil that has besieged us in his time. 

– When it seems the world has lost its mind and has become hostile to God and everything good, then we need the hope of knowing that God is still in control and is the ultimate victor.

It is always at this time of year that we are especially faced with the world’s hostility to Christ and his coming. People are afraid to say Merry Christmas, afraid to celebrate it in the stores even though the reason the stores make so much is because of Christmas. Schools and government offices close down but the fear of mentioning Christmas is paralyzing. However, this administration, love it or hate it, does not possess the same fears about celebrating Christmas as past ones.

But our hope does not rest on the way the culture seems to be drifting — good or bad. Our hope is in something quite different. There are at least three areas from which our hope springs which I want us to look at today. 

1) We have hope because of who we are. Who are we?

We are the people of God. 

– He has created us with his own hands. 

– He has redeemed us with the blood of his own Son. 

– He has raised Christ from the grave and promised that we will follow in like manner. 

– He is preparing us a place in his kingdom.

We are the children of God. We are the redeemed. We are the heirs of a coming kingdom. This is our origin, our present reality and our inheritance. What could be better?

We should not be angry at those who will not allow a simple greeting like “Merry Christmas!” We are marching to a different Drummer in a different parade. We really don’t need to go down Main Street. 

– We should pity those who do not have this hope. 

– We should pray for them with genuine concern. 

I keep trying to figure out what people do when they do not believe in God. In what do they place their hope? The truth is they have no hope. If this material world is all there is, then there is nothing transcendent or beyond themselves on which they can place their trust and hope. And all that is left is their own ingenuity, strength and success. 

That might keep you for awhile, but what happens when all those things in which you have placed your trust and hope fail? Success and strength come to an end. There is only an empty void without God. If you have placed all of your hope in your abilities, and your abilities fail, then you are going to have to figure out who you are all over again. 

-If you believe this whole world happened by chance, then chance is all you can hope for.

 – If you believe this world is the result of a cosmic accident, then the best you can hope for is something accidental. 

– If existence does not have meaning, then the best you can hope for is a meaningless existence. 

– If there was no God in the beginning, then the best you can hope for is a godless future.

But, thank God, we have a sure and certain hope that is grounded in reality — the reality of God and life itself. 

Our lives began with God and will end with God. Jeremiah said, 

Jeremiah 1:4,5

The Lord gave me this message: 5 “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”

Isaiah the prophet said, Isaiah 49:1 

The Lord called me before my birth; from within the womb he called me by name.

The apostle Paul wrote about…Galatians 1:15

“But even before I was born, God chose me and called me by his marvelous grace….” 

The point is, if that was true for them, it is also true for you. In fact, one more thing… Ephesians 1:3-6

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ. 4 Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. 5 God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. 6 So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son.

God knew you before you were born — even before the world was created. He set you apart to belong to him. He called you and knew you by name. He created you to belong to him that you might know him and live with him forever. This is who you are. 

God says this about you through Peter…1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;

2) We have hope because of whose we are.

The only way that we can have hope in who we are, is because of Whose we are.

God is our father and we are his children. He has…. ransomed, restored, raised us. It is all about him. 

– We have confidence because our confidence is in him. 

– We have hope because we know that God knows what is going on in our lives. 

– We have courage to face the future because he is in control of all of existence, and he will overcome all the problems that evil has brought into our lives. God will overcome this and make us victorious in the process.

Because of who God is, we know that something good is going to happen….. Something is on the horizon…. Something is growing…. Something is happening because there is…. Someone behind the scenes making it happen. We are not sure what it is going to look like, but we know it is going to be wonderful. It has already begun in us, and one day it will be completed. Paul put it this way he was

Philippians 1:6

And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.

It is in knowing whose we are that we are able to redirect our confidence from ourselves, our efforts and our abilities to something which is lasting. 

We are able to hope because we are able to trust God. We no longer have to be in control. We can let go and let God. 

It is important to understand that hoping is not wishing. Wishing is something that those who do not have God do. At one time that is where we were, for as the Bible says…  Ephesians 2:12

In those days you were living apart from Christ. You were excluded from citizenship among the people of Israel, and you did not know the covenant promises God had made to them. You lived in this world without God and without hope.

– To hope is to give up control and give the control to God.

– It replaces confidence in ourselves to confidence in God. 

– It is not wishing, for wishing keeps things within the bounds of our own imaginations. Hope is open-ended — an expectation that God is going to do something greater than we could have ever dreamed.

 Wishing is fantasy, hope is based in a grand reality — the person and character of a loving, ever imaginative God who always has our best in mind. Here is how the apostle Paul put it…2 Corinthians 1:20-22 

For all of God’s promises have been fulfilled in Christ with a resounding “Yes!” And through Christ, our “Amen” (which means “Yes”) ascends to God for his glory.

We have wonderful hope because we have a wonderful God who will never fail us. Paul writes to young Timothy….2 Timothy 2:13 

If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful, for he cannot deny who he is.

We are hopeful because of whose we are.

3) We have hope because of where we are.

Where do you live? If you thought of your physical address, or the name of your state, you have missed the point. 

-If you belong to Jesus Christ you are living in his kingdom. That’s where you are. You do not have to wait until Jesus comes again. He has already come. The kingdom of God is here. It is within us and around us. We are walking with God every day. We live with an awareness of his presence and the expectation of his working in our lives. We are not just sitting around waiting for heaven. Heaven has already begun for believers. We are already getting a taste of what it will be like. God is our Father, Jesus Christ is our brother, and our sins are forgiven. His resurrection is the promise of eternal life for us. God has shared his joy with us and placed his peace within us. Because we are living in the kingdom, we live in hope. It is because of where we are that we know where we are going. 

We live with confidence in the present and we face the future with courage because…Hebrews 6;19

“This hope is a strong and trustworthy anchor for our souls….”

Bethany Hamilton was once ranked as the best amateur teen surfer in Hawaii. But one day in October, 2003, she lost an arm to a tiger shark while surfing. The story of a beautiful and talented teenager losing an arm to a shark made national news. However, there is another side to Bethany that kept her from being depressed and sinking into a life of self-pity — she had a relationship with Christ that transcended the tragedy she experienced. Soon after the attack, she began to raise money to restore a man’s eyesight. While she was visiting New York City, she gave her ski coat to a homeless girl. Her story which appeared in USA Today states: “As always, Hamilton remains undaunted. She has told her father that if having only one arm proved detrimental to reaching the top in competitive surfing, then she’d see about playing soccer.” 

Her pastor, Steve Thompson, said, “She’s looking forward to the future. She’s asking herself, ‘How can I show the world I still have a life, that I enjoy my life, and that my life is filled with joy?’ She has an underlying trust that God is taking care of her.” There is someone who understands who she is, whose she is and where she is. 

Her tragedy became a triumph, and it was all because Hope came to earth one Christmas day.

And so, I say with Paul Ephesians 1:18

I pray that your hearts will be flooded with light so that you can understand the confident hope he has given to those he called—his holy people who are his rich and glorious inheritance.

All of this shows that are hope is accomplished in this familiar Christmas passageIsaiah 9:6,7

For unto us a Child is born,

Unto us a Son is given;

And the government will be upon His shoulder.

And His name will be called

Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God,

Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

7 Of the increase of His government and peace

There will be no end,